This sign by itself doesnt mean hes gay, but coupled with some of the other signs, it can be telling. Also keep in mind that an absence of this sign doesnt always mean hes not into men, either. While platonic friends smile at each other often, if the dude youre into makes a lot of prolonged eye contact while smiling, then this indicates youve caught his attention. Does he unexpectedly hug you, or maybe touch your arm when hes laughing? Those are all signs that hes interested in you. If you think that courtship through teasing is something only kindergarteners do, youre way off. Lots of guys show their affection this way, and its one of the almost definite signs that hes into you. But, keep in mind it could also mean hes gay and hes totally not interested in having sex with you. All his talks about waiting till marriage are nothing but a sham in order to keep you on the hook so that he can have you as his fake girlfriend whom he can parade in front of family and friends. Body language is a huge sign when it comes to seeing if hes interested in you. It actually accounts for 80 of human communication, so, its best you pay attention to it. If hes interested in you, hell be open and face you directly. He wont have a problem getting close to you, and hell give you direct eye contact. The first and most basic sign that hes into you is if he comes up to you at a party or at any other event and starts talking to you. Of course this doesnt necessarily mean that hes interested in you romantically but its definitely a start. He might have tunnel vision where its like he hardly notices anything else going on in the room. These are all good signs that hes made you the center of attention, and hes definitely interested. A guy whos interested in you will begin to include you in future plans and scenarios. to tell if your guy friend is gay, notice whether he refers to other guys as attractive, which could be a sign that hes gay. Pay attention to how much he talks about women in a romantic or sexual way, since a lack of interest in women could suggest hes gay. If youre still unsure, try talking to him about gay men to see how he responds. 9 worst situations when shes alone vs in public - duration 1137. Before confronting him, check out these possible signs your boyfriend may be gay. If your boyfriend cant stop talking about lesbians and gays, even when you say nothing on this topic, he may hide the truth from you. They say, if you hate something, this means youre interested in it.