This visit to a gay spa ive never been attracted to men,. but then i got to college and, for the first time, i was surrounded by openly gay men my age. (there wasnt a single man who came out as gay in my class of 150 students while in high school. ) vassar college, for lack of better words, is gay af, and i mean that in the best of ways. 18, 2006 -- nearly one in 10 men who say theyre straight have sex only with other men, a new york city survey finds. as much as gay men are willing to boast about their encounters with straight men, finding a straight man who engages in these same sex experiences to talk openly was like the hunt for bin laden. these photos of naked men in berlin show the intimacy of gay sex. Manboy love is as old as love itself, and stories of it have been told for thousands of years.